Sunday, 19 April 2015

2015-16

Again I had a calm week, although almost every day there was a activity.
I took my rest in time.

Already for some time I m thinking about the relationship I have with my Wife. Sometimes I am flattering myself thinking it is a FLR. I always try to follow Her wishes. 
When e are going somewhere and I know the way, She often tells me to take another route than I had planned. And of course I do. 
She doesn't like shopping, so that's my job, except for vegetables. I suppose that's a left over from the time She had an allotment garden.
In the household I try to do my share: washing up, preparing breakfast, serving coffee, baking bread, making the bed. I am maintaining her computer etc.
As to sexual activity, I only can give Her an orgasm by serving Her orally or manually because of my impotence. I always wait until She gives me a sign tha She wants my service.
She lets me take care of our finances, insurances etc. I always inform Her about big expenses, like gifts to our children etc. But She leaves the rest to me.

Again I had a calm week, although almost every day there was a activity.
I took my rest in time.

Already for some time I m thinking about the relationship I have with my Wife. Sometimes I am flattering myself thinking it is a FLR. I always try to follow Her wishes. 
When e are going somewhere and I know the way, She often tells me to take another route than I had planned. And of course I do. 
She doesn't like shopping, so that's my job, except for vegetables. I suppose that's a left over from the time She had an allotment garden.
In the household I try to do my share: washing up, preparing breakfast, serving coffee, baking bread, making the bed. I am maintaining her computer etc.
As to sexual activity, I only can give Her an orgasm by serving Her orally or manually because of my impotence. I always wait until She gives me a sign that She wants my service.
She lets me take care of our finances, insurances etc. I always inform Her about big expenses, like gifts to our children etc. But She leaves the rest to me.


So I am trying to serve Her. But on the other hand She doesn't give strict orders or rules and certainly no punishments or spankings. In the past She told me She doesn't want a D/s relationship, but She does accept my service, even considers it my job.

So all together I suppose it is a DFLR, a Desired Female Led Relationship, desired by me of course.

Our week ended with a surprise. Our son, who lives in Spain told us there was an office gathering or team building organised by his employer. They wanted him there too. It happened on Friday. After the dinner etc. He went into a nearby hotel, but yesterday he came to stay last night with us. We already had tickets for a fado dinner in the restaurant of our nephew. So we ordered another ticket for our son. We had a great evening with nice company, wonderful Portuguese food and beautiful music.

Our son today left again. It was a very nice end of the week.

Sunday, 12 April 2015

2015-15

This week I enjoyed a bit of free time. I had only a few tax clients to visit for returning their documents.

I could give more attention to my sister. Her health is going worse. She now is suffering from a tennis elbow, which makes her even more handicapped. Today my Wife and I visited her. I could order some stuff for her in a web shop. In spite of all her troubles she still has her sense of humour. She visited the orthopedist this week. He prescribed made to measure shoes. He warned to be very careful not to hurt her feet. When she gets an open wound, it will be very difficult to heal. In fact he confirmed her body is totally worn out.
The weather here is getting better. My sister can enjoy the beautiful view from her balcony. There is a meadow with sheep and birds. There is a small river with people in boats. She loves it.

I also had time to read the blogs I am following. I like to read them, although I not always can comment.



Sunday, 5 April 2015

2015-14

Compared to last month this week was very calm. Finally time to reed the blogs of my friends. I also visited some real life friends, who were neglected for some time.

I also brought my and my sister's bookkeeping up to date.

I realise I have a lot of outstanding work to do on my computer. Also my Wife's computer needs some extra attention.

So now it is Easter. As we aren't religious people we don't really celebrate it. And to be honest, I am glad it is over on radio and television. Nevertheless I wish those who believe
HAPPY EASTER.

Sunday, 29 March 2015

2015-13

This week was very busy.

- I had the usual chores and activities.
- My Wife was away for a short holiday with her sister.
- Our son was staying with me on Monday and Tuesday. He had to work on Monday, so we only had the the evening to have a talk.
- My sister's computer screen went black. So we (my son and me) went to have a look at it. My son thought it was best to buy a new laptop. After the computer examination we drove to the Chinese restaurant for a nice dinner.
- On Wednesday I had to leave early to arrange tables and chairs for the bridge club. Later in the morning our son left to go home in Spain again. I went with my sister's laptop to our local computer shop. The screen was unrepairable and the battery had to be changed too. As it was an old laptop, they advised me to buy a new one. I got an offer and my sister agreed with it.
- I also had a few laborious tax clients.

Shortly after I returned from the Thursday bridge my Wife came in. That was very nice. In spite of being busy, I had missed Her very much.

On Friday afternoon the computer shop called to tell me the new laptop was ready. They had copied the data, contacts, bookmarks etc. from the old computer. My Wife and I decided to take the new laptop immediately to my sister, who was very surprised. I connected the printer and adjusted the browser. It was working excellently and quickly.

And yesterday I handled the last clients so I am finished now. I have to visit several clients though to return their documents. Only for 4 people who are abroad or sick I have permission to do the tax return before 1st of September.

So next week I can do my own things, hopefully.

Sunday, 22 March 2015

2015-12

Last week was a bit calmer than those before. But the tax clients were more complicated. Some people have all documents ready when I come to fetch them. Then it is quick and easy. But now I have the difficult people to do. They didn't receive the usual documents, they often tell me. I don't believe them. Some people are so unorganised. Fortunately now the tax office has the needed information already on the website. We are supposed to check if they have the right information. Therefor we need the documents, bank statements etc. When the clients can't produce them, I trust the tax office. But it always is time consuming.
Some people have a list of deductible gifts. We have to check if the receiving institutions are on the list of the approved institutions.
But the end is near now. For some people I have to ask for extension of time, because they are out of the country or in hospital.
I suppose I'll get more time for my Wife and myself after next week.

Next week my Wife and her sister will enjoy a short vacation together. So for a few days I'll be the head of the household. :)

Sunday, 15 March 2015

2015-11

What a week.....

I was busy with my usual things of course. There also was a meeting of the organisation of elderly people. I still feel obliged to visit those meetings as I was a member of the board years ago. I still feel a connection.
A friend of us invited my Wife and me as she had renovated her house.
And of course the taxes. The new system is consuming more time, but of course it is more likely that I am slower.
And last Friday it was my 80th birthday. We were told the electricity would be cut off from 8.00 till 12.00 for maintenance on the network. So we had told everyone not to come in the morning. But the lights went on on 9.50 already, so we had a nice calm morning together. When there was electricity again I could check my iPad and I had so many kind emails, messages etc. And they kept coming in until late that day. So kind of everyone.
Late in the afternoon our daughter arrived. We were kissing and hugging and when she stepped aside our son, who lives in Spain, was there too. A complete surprise for me, as I heard later everyone knew he was coming except me. :)
It was a great day.
And now life will be 'normal' again.
Oh, I almost forgot, my dear Wife let me serve Her this morning and She found it very pleasurable.

Sunday, 8 March 2015

2015-10

It was a busy week. I am sorry I didn't have much time to read the blogs I'm interested in.

I visited many tax clients to collect the necessary documents. It was very nice to see my old ├žlients' again and have a conversation with them. I feel they consider me a friend.

At home I kept trying to to enter the tax website and finally Wednesday afternoon I succeeded and I could download the data already recorded by the tax office.  Then I could start with the tax returns.

In the past most of my clients got money returned from the tax office, but now most people have to pay. I can't help it.

This is my 'news' of last week. Next week will be mostly the same.