Sunday, 23 November 2014


Perhaps it is the season of the year, but I am feeling old and tired. 

Perhaps it is the situation everywhere in the world and in the Netherlands. Many (old) people who are talking to me are afraid about the future. 

Perhaps I did too much this week. Apart from my usual activities my Wife and I visited my sister. There also was a friend of her, a sculptor who had sculpted the head of my sister's husband with only some photos and my sister's stories. The sculpture is beautiful and the sculptor, a friend of my late uncle, became our friend too. It was a nice visit and dinner. Yet my Wife and I were tired.
Next day I attended a dinner for the volunteers of the organisation for elderly people.

I must accept I cannot do as much as some years ago. So yesterday and today I took it easy.

My Wife was tired too. We slept long this morning. She wasn't in the mood for my service. She is loosing her interest. But fortunately She told me again She is happy with her husband. So I have nothing to complain about.

Sunday, 16 November 2014


I don't have much to blog about. Every day I had my usual chores and activities of course.
Monday I had an appointment with my doctor. (Inflamed toe)
On Tuesday I went to my sister to install the iPad she finally has bought.
And Friday I had to deal with a tax problem.
Quite a dull week. Nevertheless it went by so quickly.
This morning we slept long. I was awake rather early, but my Wife was sleeping so nicely. So I didn't move very much. Finally I had to get up, as we would visit my sister again to help her with her new iPad. So there was no time for cuddling or more.
The visit to my sister went well. She is really happy with the iPad.
The good thing was that during the week my Wife several times told me I am a very fine husband.

Sunday, 9 November 2014


Again I had a calm week. More time to watch television.

I was getting more and more irritated by constant requests for money for foundations of diseases. I was told to send money for fight against several diseases, but also to help handicapped children, elderly people, animals, etc. I am sure I am forgetting to mention several others. Usually I don't watch commercials and previews, but this time I didn't want to change the channel. That would have made no difference, I think, because all channels broadcast the same stuff. I also get those requests in my letterbox.
I am sure those foundation have the best intentions, although their managers are earning usually more money per year than I ever had in 4 or 5 years. But when that work really is necessary, then the government should take it's responsibility.

As to our government, while watching television I was constantly confronted with the sad consequences of the cutting in the care for the poor and the old people. It made me angry, especially because they bring it as a step forward. When we now need help we are dependent on the so called 'participating society'. It means for help you have to ask neighbours, friends, relatives. Old, invalid people now aren't admitted to care homes any more. Only very demented people and people like my brother-in-law, who is paralysed for the most part after a cerebral hemorrhage. In our care center of about 5 years many apartments have to stay empty. The patients are unhappy and afraid, the nurses are angry, because they cannot give the care they find necessary, and the volunteers are angry too, as they now have to take over tasks from personnel. Many of them stop now.

Anyway, watching television and reading papers doesn't make you happy. My dear Wife however made me very happy this morning. Yesterday I went to bed, while my Wife wanted to finish the chapter in the book She was reading. I already was asleep when She entered her bed. This morning we woke up and as always on Sunday I turned to Her to lie against her. I discovered She was sleeping totally in the nude. She obviously had been planning to allow me to serve Her. I was happy to oblige of course and She had a fine orgasm.

So the start of this week is great. I will watch television a bit more selectively.

Sunday, 2 November 2014


There not much to blog about this time. The most remarkable fact is the warm weather. We had the warmest November day since temperatures are registered. Tomorrow it will be over and real autumn will start.

I seem to need more time for everything. So the week was over very quickly.

Last Friday was our daughter's 48th birthday. We visited her in the afternoon. First we picked her up from her work. then she directed us to a nice restaurant in an reversed farmhouse. Our daughter hadn't made a reservation. Now there only were free tables outside on the terrace, which turned out to be a blessing. It was beautiful weather, about 18°C and no wind at all. Now and again we even had sunshine. It was a very nice lunch, good food and a nice conversation with our daughter. After lunch we drove to her house where we had tea and more talking. It was a nice afternoon.

Our children's age (our son will reach 46 this month) made us realise more how old we are. We of course knew that already thanks to the growing amount of physical troubles. But we are thankful for what we still are able to do.

Sunday, 26 October 2014


It was a busy week.

 Apart from my usual activities I spent an afternoon in my Wife's museum.

We also all Wednesday on my sister, as it was her 78th birthday. In the morning I had to go to the bridge club, but my Wife went to pick her up. First they did some shopping. My sister isn't mobile enough to do that on her own.  After the bridge I had prepared lunch for the ladies. We had a calm afternoon together. My sister really enjoyed it. She was in a very cheery mood. She and my Wife were talking about the visit to a coffeeshop (that's what shops where weed is sold are called in Holland). My sister is using medicinal cannabis from a pharmacy, but her friend, an MS patient, told her she was buying the stuff in coffeeshops. So my Wife persuaded my sister to enter the shop but had to do the talking herself. It was the first time She  was in such a shop. They were served very nicely and politely. The stuff there was less than half the price of the medicinal stuff. The had a good laugh about a client after them who exclaimed: "What are you two doing here?" Obviously she wasn't used to see two old ladies in that  coffeeshop. Anyway it was kind of an adventure to talk and laugh about. I haven't heard from my sister if she has used that stuff already.
At the end of the afternoon we drove to the Chinese restaurant near her home. We had a very nice dinner. Then we took her to her house. It was a calm day and yet we both were very tired.

Friday my sister visited us again with special transport, as she had an appointment with my pedicure. She still was in a good mood in spite of her growing physical problems.

Yesterday was a busy day for my Wife in the museum. I only had to do some shopping and cook dinner.

Because the clock was set back one hour we had a long night, but we woke up at the usual time. My Wife wasn't in the mood for my sexual service. It doesn't matter. It is her choice.

Sunday, 19 October 2014


I don't have much to tell about last week.

I took it easy again. I seem to have less energy lately.

The weather in Holland was more summer than autumn. It was very nice.

I visited my sister this morning. She had a bad week health wise. Her back was more or less locked. She hardly could move and she had so much pain. Her stepson and his little daughter were visiting her when it happened. They could help her a bit. Next day she phoned her GP. He wanted to visit her but he warned her he couldn't anything for her. Only more paracetamol and cannabis tea. Fortunately it went better during the week.
Next week is her 78th birthday. She doesn't want a big celebration. So my Wife wile pick her up in the morning (I have to go to the bridge club). She wants to do some shopping and my Wife can drive her to the shops. Then we will have lunch in our house and in the evening we will have dinner in her favourite Chinese restaurant.

My Wife wasn't in the mood for sex this morning, but we cuddled for some time. That always is exciting to me. It is strange: My penis didn't have a real erection for almost 20 years now but still doesn't understand it is useless. It still is producing lots of precum. Quite embarrassing. My Wife is smiling when She notices it.

Sunday, 12 October 2014


It was a relatively calm week, which was fine. My Wife and I both still felt the travel fatigue of last week. We both took it easy. We of course had our usual activities. We also visited my sister who is feeling a little bit better, although still in a bad shape.

The organisation of elderly people, where I was a member of the board years ago, organised a gathering. My Wife, her friend (my bridge partner) and I went to see it. It was a performance of a Russian-Ukraine dance group/choir/orchestra. They were all living in The Netherlands, some married to Dutch partners. It was a wonderful performance. They all were wearing beautiful costumes. They sang and danced very moving. The musicians played well. We enjoyed the performance very much. It proved that Russian and Ukraine people can live together and be friends. I hope the leaders of these countries will understand that too.

This morning my Wife had a nice surprise for me. She wasn't wearing her pyjama jacket and after some cuddling She allowed me to fondle and kiss her breasts and even to serve her pussy orally. It is so exciting to see her having a nice orgasm. I loved it to smell and taste her lovely pussy.

So our Sunday morning was a lovely one.