Sunday, 13 April 2014


Although it was a calm week, I was tired.

I was frustrated that my brother-in-law was working so hard in our garden all week and I could do nothing to help him.
Yesterday he and the pavier were working from 7.00 am till over 5.00 pm.

My Wife was working all day in the museum, that was open all day because of the spring fair in our village.

And I did nothing. Fortunately an old lady visited me with her laptop. She had some problems and I could solve the . That gave me some consolation.

At about 5.00 pm the job in the garden was finished. And to be honest it looks wonderful. My Wife also is very happy with it  We had a drink to celebrate. Then it was time to cook dinner. I had prepared a nice tuna pasta and my Wife liked it too.

I had hope She was in for some sex play this morning now her sore lip is healed, but She wasn't. Finishing the garden was on her mind, I suppose. So I couldn't only serve Her by making breakfast. My hope now is on Easter. :)

Sunday, 6 April 2014


Yes, time flies. We already are in the second quarter of the year. It was a moving week with the cremation of my old uncle. It was a very long ceremony with a ritual we didn't know.

Another thing that kept us busy was my Wife's desired for a new pavement in our backyard. As the garden is her territory She decided with help of my brother-in-law, who is very handy, about the design etc.
Fortunately my brother-in-law removed the existing pavement. It costed him 5 days. Last Friday the new stuff was delivered and the pavier came to start the works. Yesterday he, his son and my brother-in-law worked all day from 07.00 am until 06.00 pm. They hardly took time to eat or drink.
Half the job is done now. He will finish it next Saturday. At the moment my Wife is busy rearranging the plants in the garden.

For the rest no news. My Wife still has a sore upper lip and is untouchable. She says it take two weeks to recover.

Sunday, 30 March 2014


I noticed I almost always am writing how busy I was in the last week. It is feeling busy because I am so much slower than I used to be. And much quicker tired.

Fortunately my voluntary tax work is done, so I can take it easy, reading my paper and one of the many books I have on the shelf.

This week my and my sister's last uncle died at the age of 99. I didn't have much contact with him. My sister and in the past my mother were more in contact with. Of course we will attend the cremation.

Apart from the cremation I only seem the have my normal activities and duties. I am looking forward to a calm week.

My Wife is suffering from cold sores, so She isn't in the mood for any physical contact. I am sorry for Her. I hope it will be over soon. She now even had to postpone her appointment with the oral surgeon.

Sunday, 23 March 2014


I expected a calm week. It was calm indeed, although every day I had something unexpected. My sister's house agent came to inspect the cleaned and emptied apartment. I first had to pick up my sister and bring her home afterwards. She was in a rather bad shape. She had a muscle rupture in her right arm.
I also had a TeamViewer appointment with the supplier of my antivirus program. I had a visit to my GP and he sent me to laboratory to examine my blood.
My sister had problem with her television and I was asked to sort it out. So I went there again.

Today we slept long as we both were tired. My Wife wasn't in the mood for sex. It turned out to be a busy day after all as we had to visit my sister and she insisted to give us a lunch in the restaurant in the complex. I could solve a minor computer problem for her too.

Until now my diary doesn't show anything special next week. Then I'll have time to bring my administration up to date.

Sunday, 16 March 2014


My life is getting less busy now. My tax work is almost finished. The weather is very nice here, real spring. So life looks nicer now.
This week I celebrated my birthday. We had visitors almost all day, but fortunately they didn't come at the same time. I am grateful my family and friends made the effort to visit us.
I also got an email from an internet friend who hadn't written for a long time and several telephone calls.
And today my dear Wife wanted my oral service. It made me happy I could give Her a very nice orgasm.
So there is a lot to be thankful for.

Sunday, 9 March 2014


This week it was very busy with my tax work. Most returns have to done before April 1st. We, the volunteers of the organization of elderly people, are visiting our clients to collect the documents. and later we have to bring everything back of course. People like our visits to they take their time. :) Anyway it is a good social function.

Several unexpected stuff came up too. My Wife needed my help in the museum. They bought a new computer... Now they have Windows 8 and I never paid any attention to it as at home we have Windows 7.

I was asked to help the organiser of the bridge club as he needed somebody to replace a sick player and I cannot say 'no'.

Yesterday my sister needed us to help her inspecting the old house, where a handyman had cleaned and repaired a lot. It was fine.

My Wife too was very busy in the museum, with the new computer and also organising everything.

So we both were tired, Unfortunately my Wife didn't sleep well. So She wasn't in the mood for my sexual attention. Now we are getting older it seems less and less important too, although I myself miss it.

I hope next week will be better now it is real spring here.

Sunday, 2 March 2014


It was an enervating week. It felt like I was constantly visiting tax clients, making the tax returns, bringing back the documents.Of course I had my normal duties too. But I managed. As to the tax work I now am more than half way.

It was a moving week too. First my sister visited us and she had to tell us her doctor has diagnosed her with the first stage of Parkinson. That comes now above her other physical problems, rheumatism, neuralgia, neuropathia. She was very sad. She fears to get totally dependent from other people. especially mentally. I told her Parkinson often is developing slowly.

One of my tax clients was invited to participate in a big project for examination of intestines. Although he didn't have complaints he sent in some stuff and was invited for closer examination. He went to the hospital and soon it was clear he had cancer. Now he has to undergo more scans and tests, but the doctors told him already he needs to be operated and than he will have a permanent stoma. He couldn't believe it as he never in his life felt better than now. So I had to try to comfort him and his wife.

I regard myself as a matter of fact person, but this is moving me too.

But when I woke up this morning lying beside my darling Wife, I realised how lucky we are to have each other. We didn't do anything sexual, but we cuddled and hugged. We were happy. We are happy.