Sunday, 24 May 2015

2015-21

The week started without the usual indoor bowls. In stead many members went to the cremation ceremony. It was a sad and beautiful happening. There was nice music, a niece and a nephew made a wonderful speech about their uncle. But his widow was so distressed. She now is a small, pitiful, old lady and she used to be the strong one in their relationship.
I hope she will recover soon.

The rest of the week went by without peculiarities, so I took it easy. So I was lazy and the week was over so quickly.

Tomorrow no bowls again, because it is a public holiday (Whit Monday). And it is the last week of the season for the bridge club.

Perhaps I have more to tell next week.

Sunday, 17 May 2015

2015-20

Monday I got the message that the husband of one of the members of the indoor bowls club was struck by a cerebral hemorrhage. On Tuesday I heard he passed away. It of course is sad for his widow, but it is good his suffering ended. Last year his dementia was worsening and after the hemorrhage he was one sided paralysed en couldn't speak anymore.Tomorrow is the cremation ceremony. Therefore I had to cancel the game of tomorrow to give the members the opportunity to attend the ceremony.

On Wednesday I had to undergo a medical examination for the renewing of my driving licence. As I am an apnoea patient it has to be renewed every 3 years. Every time I have to undergo that examination. I am going to the same doctor practice. The result of the examination was okay, no problems. When the doctor had put down the results, he asked if I was there before. I told him I was a regular, at least 4 times. "Did you pay last time?", he asked. "Of course", I said. "Then you don't have to pay now", he said. I asked him why. "Well", he said, "you can't help that you have apnoea and that the CBR (the organisation that is issuing the licences) is so annoying. You can pay next time." It was a very nice gesture and I thanked him profoundly. The requirement for those examinations is useless for people who are treated like I am. After this 'normal' examination I am always sent to a specialist, who has to be paid too. Six years ago it was € 150. Last time it was € 275. Both times he looked at the print out of my VPAP and said it was okay.  Six years ago the 'consult' lasted 3 minutes and last time I was out in 1 minute. The Dutch apnoea organisation is trying to persuade the CBR to treat us as normal people. Patients who aren't treated are the real danger.

The rest of the week was without shocking events, so I took it easy.

Sunday, 10 May 2015

2015-19

Being old makes the time fly. Last week was over so quickly....

I had my usual activities. Monday indoor bowls, Wednesday and Thursday bridge club. Tuesday was our National Liberation Day. We followed some celebrations on television. On Wednesday my Wife bought a garden box for my sister's balcony. In the afternoon we took it to her and assembled it. Friday I had to do some extra shopping as yesterday we celebrated my Wife's 72nd birthday.
It was a calm celebration, as our visitors cam spread out over the day, so we could give attention to all people. The last visitors left around midnight. Together we cleaned and cleared everything. Then we ended we a last drink together. All together it was a tiring but nice day.

We slept well. When we woke up we cuddled. My Wife wasn't wearing her pyjamas, just a pantie. I took that as a sign She didn't want my oral service. But after some time She got up to use the toilet and returned completely naked. She let me fondle her lovely breasts and nipples. Then to my surprise She started to masturbate my flaccid little penis until I was near a mini internal orgasm. I can't reach that any more, but her touch felt great. Then She lied down and invited me to serve Her. Soon She had a fine orgasm, which made us both very happy.

We really are a very happy couple.

Sunday, 3 May 2015

2015-18

It was a calm week again. No Monday activity (indoor bowls), because of King's Day. Also my Wife's usual activity in the museum were cancelled. So we stayed in, watching television, reading etc.

On Thursday we visited Annie's former boss of more than 20 years ago. We still are befriended with him and his partner. They were also present at out anniversary dinner. It was his 86th birthday. It was nice to meet them again. He was the youngest in the family. His sisters of 90 and 91 years were there too. They both are in a good health, physically and mentally.

Friday I finally could set myself to making a phone call to a cousin who had been in hospital. Another cousin sent me a Christmas card in which she told me her sister was in hospital. I sent her a card and asked her to call me when she was up to it. She didn't and I postponed making a call myself too. But now it did it. And she was very happy with it. We had a nice conversation. Unfortunately she still is in a very bad shape physically. She has almost the same problems as my sister. It is funny to hear her talking. She sounds exactly like my sister. Runs in the family. She told me our parent had given the good genes to the first borns. Her brother and the daughter of a brother of my father and me - all 80 years old - are in a relatively good shape and the later borns have serious problems. We decided to stay in contact. I was glad I had phoned her.

And this morning my Wife surprised me again. She wanted me to make love to Her. I am so glad I can do that even while being impotent. I've mentioned it earlier. My impotence is in fact a blessing for both of us. I never could give my Wife an orgasm by penetrative sex and She would let me serve Her orally then. I wasn't a good lover then. But after my prostate operations I became impotent and fortunately She then allowed me oral sex and to our surprised She then experienced an orgasm. And still, in spite of our age. We are a very happy couple.

Sunday, 26 April 2015

2015-17

Not much happened this week. Now the tension of the taxes is over, I really am in a very slow mode. I just can manage to finish my weekly activities and chores. I was thinking about ending this blog, as it was rather dull for my followers

However yesterday morning was a big surprise. As we went to bed rather late on Friday, my Wife had announced She wanted to sleep long. So it was rather late when we woke up. I turned to her side for a cuddle and to my surprise She was completely naked. I took it as an invitation to caress Her. She allowed me to fondle her breasts and to lick and suck her nipples. After some time I touched her pussy. It was so wet. I caressed her pussy manually and later I took my place between her legs and licked her lovely, smooth pussy until She experienced a strong orgasm. After some time we again cuddled as a really happy couple.

So all together it was a nice week with a happy ending.

Sunday, 19 April 2015

2015-16

Again I had a calm week, although almost every day there was a activity.
I took my rest in time.

Already for some time I m thinking about the relationship I have with my Wife. Sometimes I am flattering myself thinking it is a FLR. I always try to follow Her wishes. 
When e are going somewhere and I know the way, She often tells me to take another route than I had planned. And of course I do. 
She doesn't like shopping, so that's my job, except for vegetables. I suppose that's a left over from the time She had an allotment garden.
In the household I try to do my share: washing up, preparing breakfast, serving coffee, baking bread, making the bed. I am maintaining her computer etc.
As to sexual activity, I only can give Her an orgasm by serving Her orally or manually because of my impotence. I always wait until She gives me a sign tha She wants my service.
She lets me take care of our finances, insurances etc. I always inform Her about big expenses, like gifts to our children etc. But She leaves the rest to me.

Again I had a calm week, although almost every day there was a activity.
I took my rest in time.

Already for some time I m thinking about the relationship I have with my Wife. Sometimes I am flattering myself thinking it is a FLR. I always try to follow Her wishes. 
When e are going somewhere and I know the way, She often tells me to take another route than I had planned. And of course I do. 
She doesn't like shopping, so that's my job, except for vegetables. I suppose that's a left over from the time She had an allotment garden.
In the household I try to do my share: washing up, preparing breakfast, serving coffee, baking bread, making the bed. I am maintaining her computer etc.
As to sexual activity, I only can give Her an orgasm by serving Her orally or manually because of my impotence. I always wait until She gives me a sign that She wants my service.
She lets me take care of our finances, insurances etc. I always inform Her about big expenses, like gifts to our children etc. But She leaves the rest to me.


So I am trying to serve Her. But on the other hand She doesn't give strict orders or rules and certainly no punishments or spankings. In the past She told me She doesn't want a D/s relationship, but She does accept my service, even considers it my job.

So all together I suppose it is a DFLR, a Desired Female Led Relationship, desired by me of course.

Our week ended with a surprise. Our son, who lives in Spain told us there was an office gathering or team building organised by his employer. They wanted him there too. It happened on Friday. After the dinner etc. He went into a nearby hotel, but yesterday he came to stay last night with us. We already had tickets for a fado dinner in the restaurant of our nephew. So we ordered another ticket for our son. We had a great evening with nice company, wonderful Portuguese food and beautiful music.

Our son today left again. It was a very nice end of the week.

Sunday, 12 April 2015

2015-15

This week I enjoyed a bit of free time. I had only a few tax clients to visit for returning their documents.

I could give more attention to my sister. Her health is going worse. She now is suffering from a tennis elbow, which makes her even more handicapped. Today my Wife and I visited her. I could order some stuff for her in a web shop. In spite of all her troubles she still has her sense of humour. She visited the orthopedist this week. He prescribed made to measure shoes. He warned to be very careful not to hurt her feet. When she gets an open wound, it will be very difficult to heal. In fact he confirmed her body is totally worn out.
The weather here is getting better. My sister can enjoy the beautiful view from her balcony. There is a meadow with sheep and birds. There is a small river with people in boats. She loves it.

I also had time to read the blogs I am following. I like to read them, although I not always can comment.