Sunday, 26 July 2015


Without my usual activities I am getting lazy. I took it very easy this week. Oh well, I visited a tax client to explain a few letters from the tax office and I helped another old lady with her computer. But that was it.
I myself have a computer problem too. BSOD! That doesn't invite me to work on my laptop. Unfortunately I cannot do everything on my iPad.

I sent my problem to a group of computer nerds, who gave me several solutions. Problem is I don't understand most of them. That the problem of getting old.
For many years I am reading a computer magazine, not the heavy stuff, just for the ordinary people. A few years ago I understand everything, but during the years it got more and more difficult for me. Now they gave to tell me step by step what I must do.

Anyway I did my best to carry out some of the instructions. And until now the problem didn't occur, but I thought the same last week too. I hope this time it will stay away.

Yesterday we in Holland had a heavy summer storm. We were lucky almost no damage, but in other parts of the country it was bad. People even were killed and wounded. So I mustn't complain about my computer problem.

Sunday, 19 July 2015


It was in a way a calm week with exception of visits to a podotherapist and my shoe shop. My GP sent me to the podotherapist, because my toes are growing even more out of shape. The therapist wasn't happy with my shoes. He arranged a visit to the supplier of my shoes in the same building a few days later. The therapist was present as well. Together they saw several shortcomings and I had to leave my newest pair of shoes there. Yesterday evening a received them back already. I didn't have time to try them, but I trust it is an improvement.

We are worried about the health of my brother-in-law. He returned home sick from a holiday in France. The doctor sent him to the hospital and they kept him. They gave him medicines etc. and tested his blood, made a scan. After a few days he was sent home. He is feeling rather well. Nevertheless he was told to return to the hospital for more examinations because they had discovered a bad spot on his lung. Next week he has to undergo another scan, a pet scan, and next Thursday they will tell him the results. We are worried, because years ago he had worked with asbestos. So it will be a stressful week for him and my Wife's sister.

My sister also had problems. She had so much pain that she went to her doctor, who only could prescribe a medicine she had used some years ago with bad side effects. He told her it was the only possibility. Yesterday we visited her and she told us that she finally could sleep with that medicine. Although the pain still was there, she could bear it now. She insisted the three of us would have dinner in her favourite Chinese restaurant.

This morning was wonderful. When we woke up we cuddled for some time. Then my Wife went out of bed. She told me to wait. She used the bathroom and returned naked. I could fondle her lovely breasts en She took my balls firmly in her hand. After some time She started to masturbate me and again got the feeling to be on the brink of an orgasm. That was so nice. When I calmed down I could lick her to a nice and strong orgasm. Then we were laying in each other's arms as a very happy couple.

Sunday, 12 July 2015


It was a different week.

My Wife had booked a midweek stay in a little cottage in the North of our country. Her mother was born in that region and there still lived two cousins. In her childhood She had stayed there with her aunts and uncles during the school holidays. It was a nice little cottage, but during our stay there we appreciated our own senior house we are used to.
Part of the arrangement were two bikes, reasonable bikes. We used them on the first day to visit my Wife's cousin. He and his wife were surprised to see us. It was good to catch up with them.

On the next day in the morning we went to a nice museum on the bikes. In the afternoon we visited my Wife's other cousin, a widow. That was nice too.

On the third day we drove to the north coast, also a nice trip.

Before we left we had been informed that a member of the group of friends of my Wife in her youth had died. He had helped us enormously when we hired our first house. He was a professional carpenter. He also made the photos of our wedding. Later he moved to the east part of the country and our contact slipped away. Sometimes we saw his younger brother. So we knew his health wasn't very good, but his death was a surprise.
We got a message from my Wife's sister about the details of the funeral. It was a nature cemetery. Of course decided to be there. We also decided to go home after the funeral instead of returning to the cottage to sleep and to leave the other day. Several friends of the old group turned up. It was good to meet them again, all rather old people now.

Coming home was so good: our own chair, bed, sufficient light, wifi etc.

My Wife could at ease prepare for her next trip to the same region of the funeral. It is a trip organised by our daughter, a birthday present.
So I am on my own now but She will return today. I'll prepare a nice meal for her home coming.

Saturday, 4 July 2015


I'm writing this post already on Saturday afternoon in stead of Sunday.

We are 'enjoying' a heath wave in Holland. In spite of that my Wife is working in the museum a lot this week. The old exposition has to put away. A lot of stuff that was borrowed from clubs and associations has to be returned to the owners and the new exposition has to be prepared.

I followed the advice of the government and kept calm, drank a lot of water etc. I could watch Wimbledon and from today also the Tour de France.

The night are very warm. So I decided to sleep without a cover last nights. As I always sleep naked I could stay nicely cool during the night.

This morning I was dreaming. I dreamt my Wife was toying with my genitals. I couldn't believe it as She hadn't touched me there for a very long time. Then I woke up and it wasn't a dream. She really was playing with my little flaccid penis. When She realised I was awake, She took it in her mouth and sucked. Of course I couldn't have an orgasm, but I experienced a feeling that reminded me of the internal mini orgasms I felt when the impotence started about 20 years ago. It was wonderful and I am so grateful She gave me this.
Then it was my turn to serve Her. I licked and sucked her nipples, played with my fingers in her pussy. At the end I was allowed to serve Her orally and She had a wonderful orgasm.

What a lovely way to wake up.

Sunday, 28 June 2015


Apart from indoor bowls, one tax return and my usual domestic chores it was a quiet week. I took time to read my paper thoroughly and my book. As my sister-in-law was away on holiday, I offered to join my Wife on a trip on our bikes on Friday. She set out a nice trip, not too long for an untrained old man. It was nice to see how much green there is to enjoy, even in our urban region. The weather was nice too, so it was a very pleasant trip.

Every day I did work on my laptop. Yesterday I wanted to look up on my laptop for my wife and it was dead. It seems like the electricity supply isn't working. I hope it is something simple to repair. Otherwise I have to buy a new computer with all troubles of installing programs and transferring data. Fortunately I still can communicate with my iPad, but it is a nuisance.

My brother-in-law returned sick home from his holiday. Suddenly several people in our circle of acquaintances are seriously sick. Of course all 70+ people.

My Wife and I were talking about this this morning in bed, while we were cuddling. We agreed we are lucky to be spared from serious illness until now. I told Her I was lucky to be married to such a lovely Wife. I never make a move to do something sexy. I wait until She gives me kind of a sign it is OK. This morning I couldn't refrain myself and I touched her breasts and caressed her nipples. I expected to be pushed away, but She let me. So I was allowed to serve Her. She told me She liked what I did.
So the day started beautifully.

Sunday, 21 June 2015


Another rather calm week. The weather wasn't  very nice, not inviting for a trip on the bike. My Wife was rather busy in her museum, preparing the new exposition. I did the usual shopping and I read my paper, my book. I also tried to remove some old unnecessary files from my computer. That is taking more time than I expected. When you start reading that old stuff so many memories are coming up.

On Friday morning an old friend visited us. When I was a member of the ANBO (Organisation for elderly people) I hired her for the ANBO-activity 'Better moving for the elderly' -I don't know if this is the correct translation-. She was very young then, just 23, but immediately there was a click. She was very successful, paid attention to all participants personally. She made the lessons very interesting, because every week there was a different point of attention: The knees, the neck, the shoulders, the spine etc. That was about 20 years ago. It lasted until she got another job in a hospital and she couldn't combine it any more. But we stayed befriended and we try to see each other once or twice a year. Last Friday she visited us with her two children. It was good to see her again and to notice our relation was still the same. We told each other to stay in touch.

Later in the afternoon I had an appointment with my last tax client of the season. She herself had chosen the date and the time. When I arrived at her home she wasn't there. I waited about 15 minutes and then returned home. I sent her an email to tell her what happened and asked her to contact me for a new appointment. Later she phoned me with lots of excuses. She had completely forgotten our appointment. Now I am asked to visit her next Thursday afternoon.

Yesterday our neighbours celebrated their 50th anniversary with a dinner in a big hotel. It was in fact a family gathering. My Wife and I were the only outsiders. We knew only the happy couple, so it was difficult to talk with others. Nevertheless it was a nice dinner, but we both were tired when we arrived home again.

This morning we visited my sister. She was sleeping better last nights and now also feeling a bit better. I collected her administration, I took the meter reading of the water company. We answered question about the use of her iPad etc. She told us about the visitors she had received last week etc. She always is talking a lot. Yet is was a nice visit.

Talking about better sleep, my Wife did sleep better to this week, only one bad night.

Sunday, 14 June 2015


I don't have much to tell about last week. In fact it was a calm, relaxing week.

My Wife also took it easy. The preparation for the new exposition in the museum about nurseries in the municipality - most of them have disappeared now - is almost done. They got many photos and stories from descendants of the growers. So She could relax too. Unfortunately She still has sleeping problems. She falls asleep easily but will wake up at 4:00 or 4;30 am and cannot fall asleep again.

I finally found time and rest to read. I now almost finished 'The Children Act' by Ian McEwan, a birthday present from our son. I always like his style of writing. There are many more books in our cupboard I want to read. I think it is a nice plan for the summer.

I also need to go on clearing my computer from old and unnecessary stuff. So I'll not be bored, I suppose.